Watching the tide roll away
Well marked path In the spring of 1985, Dottie Erbaugh was laying in her bed upstairs in her house in Dayton, Virginia, dying of breast cancer. She was 32 years old. Outside, her husband was playing football with the 3 kids they had adopted. Dottie was one of my friends from church and everyone who knew her had funny stories to tell about something she did. She was one of those people who was the life of the party and made a party happen if there had not been one before. I had signed up with the home health agency that was taking care of the medications and personal care Dottie needed. It made me feel useful and gave me an excuse to spend several hours a day with her. The cancer had entered her bones and she could not move by herself. That day, I think I asked Dottie something like, “Where in the world would you be if you could be anywhere right now?” She looked longingly at the door to her room. She said,” What I want to do right no...